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Conversation Is Not Pointing Out 'the Other's Problem' but Saying 'What I Need.'

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  1. ‘네 문제는’ 대신 ‘나에게 중요한 건’으로 말한다

    AI summary
    • 비난한다고 상대가 부지런해지지 않는다.
    • ‘너는 게으르다’ 대신 ‘내게 중요한 건 깨끗한 거실’로 바꿔 말한다.
    • 원하는 것을 직접 말하는 훈련이 대화를 배우는 가장 빠른 길이다.

 

Conversation is not pointing out 'the other's problem' but saying 'what I need.'

Substituting it with what I want. 

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/xUhWVpcQVWo

 

This English version was translated by Claude.

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Pleasant Charles — UI/UX researcher at AIT. Keeping notes on design, planning, and slow days here since 2010.

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